Our Profile Pix

Our current profile pix is of our people. They live on our bed and are generally in an embrace. These small tie-dyed figures also serve as a great reminder to us that we must stay relational. If one of us is hurting or neglected or angry (etcetera), the people can be arranged to say that without the risk of confrontation. If the other of us notices the people facing away from each other or in an otherwise non-relational position, he/she has the opportunity to process thoughtfully before responding verbally. For instance, if I (Paige) see that the people on the bed are back-to-back, I will know that my dear hubby feels disconnected from me. At that point I can think about what might be bothering him and how to approach him in love and respect, instead of reacting to a perceived complaint. On the flip-side, friends, those people can be locked in a different kind of embrace altogether which would mean, well, you know...